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Mar 20, 2010
R.I.P Ebet Kadarusman

It's nice to be important, but more important to be nice.

Rest in peace, Kang Ebet Kadarusman.

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Mar 17, 2010
Started from small thing...

Anything happen in this life started from small thing.

trees.
pets.
feelings.
relationship.

Human life.

I love it when it grows, even sometimes beat us back when they're big enough to run.

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Jan 9, 2010
Mari bersenang-senang lagi, ciiiin *LOL*

 

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Time is all we have

I hate phone ringing in the middle of the night or very early in the morning. Usually it means bad news. It is today. My dad's cell-phone rang at 5 am. My uncle passed away. My plan to spend the weekend with my parents blew away; they're gone for funeral 8 hours from here. It's a reminder, whatever plan we have could gone away in a second by GOD time.

The next hour I got text from Arief, Roy our lovely best friend also lost his dad last night.

The other lost is a best friend of mine must let her love one go for a bigger love called family.

The other one hopelessly long for her family came and take her hand while she's so hard try to stand alone facing the world. No one ever wanted to be alone.

I truly believe that we will never really lose anyone or anything at all if we had a room for them in our heart. Just in case we need to let them go for a reason, all we can do is learn to live without them, physically.  

I am not planning to watch the lost-theme of movie, but I guess nature bring me there: Elizabeth Town, story about the loss. It's a story about regrets, a son who never come home for Christmas and never done things with his passed dad because of his busy job, until he got fired, cancel his suicide because his dad passed away. He must be strong for the rest of the family. He made a road trip with his dad-dusk on the jar; he thought the road trip must be happened few years ago with his dad. Again, regret.

Here's the deal, this is life. People come and go, born and dead, it will end at the funeral.  None of victory and money will save us from the fate being buried in the end. The only precious that will help you out there is prays from family & friends who love you so much.

Well, again the universe calling. Remind me over and over again, never regret any single second. It might be our greatest precious moment in life with ones we love in the most. Don't let the unimportant things drag us being far from out love ones. As the daily love twits this morning: 3 things that once gone, never come back: TIME, WORDS, and OPPORTUNITY.

Time is all we have; we better use it wisely for our love ones, our life time savior J

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Rencana Liburan & Hiburan 2010

Rencananya, tahun ini mau liburan nggak pake otak at least 3x yang direncanain, yang adhoc pasti banyak menyusul. Hahaha.

  • Bali (No work, please!) dengan Evi. Tiket sudah di tangan, yaaay! Rencana ke Bali berdua aja dengan Miund belum juga kejadian.
  • Phi Phi island dengan Dea & Manda. April atau Mei.
  • Medan, HARUS! Pengen makan enak dan ketemu WuliGia sambil wisata ke Danau Toba. Hahahaha.

Selain liburan, hiburan yang bakal mengisi 2010:

  • Java Jazz, tiket udah ditangan. cihuuuy, dapet early bird, nggak nyampe 300 ribu buat terusan 3 hari. Cihuuy!
  • Konser Kings ogf Convenience bulan Maret di Jakarta & Bandung. Horeeeeee...mengulang kesuksesan konser pertama! Can't wait! Can't wait!
  • Konser Placebo. Horeee ada temen nonton: Noni. Dasar selera orangtua! Hahaha!

Kemana rencana liburan dan apa rencana hiburan kamu tahun ini?

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Semalam di Penang

Menginap di Tune Hotels.com. Clean, friendly, strategic location, affordable. Recommendable for nice stays. Warna dan desain mobil travel-nya mengingatkan pada angkutan kota di Bandung- gabungan jurusan Elang dan Dago, ahahaha.

Kuil Buddha di puncak bukit. Nama gw bakal jadi salah satu genteng-nya ciiin, horeee!

Baba-Nyonya, Museum Peranakan di Church Street-George Town. Buat gw, ini site wisata sejarah paling menarik di Penang. Nice architecture, nice historical properties and nice tour guide. Cara dia cerita sejarah nggak bikin kita bosan.

Kalau makanan sih nggak ada bedanya lah dengan Indonesia, root-nya sama-sama makanan melayu, indian dan chinesse.
Indian food, seperti nasi campur yang disajikan dengan alas daun pisang. Setelah selesai makan, daun dilipat sebagai ekspresi "makanan-nya enak" dan menghormati yang menyajikan.
Es Kacang, seperti es campur ditambahin kacang.
Rojak, seperti rujak potong. bedanya bumbunya diberi sotong.
Gorengan, buat gw lebih menarik gorengan Indonesia yang lebih jorok, hahaha. Yag ini terlalu rapi disajikan.
Manisan buah, yang ini juga sama dengan yang di Indonesia, mau buah apa aja ada.

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May 30, 2009
Awesome Award

Ecky tagged me as one of her 7 awesome friends. Hahaha. Wenni? Awesome? Dari Hongkooong? Wakakakakak…

O well, coba kita assess tentang ke-seven-awesome-an si Neneng Wentjeuh  menurut versi diri sendiri:

1.        I am awesome because I am dealing with never ending BlackBerry thingy. 3 Bold in a month. AWESOME!

2.        I am awesome because bertahan hidup sendirian di Jakarta yang katanya sejahat ibu tiri. Kalau benar ibu tiri sejahat ibu kota, nggak mau punya ibu tiri ah. Jadi anak rantau, semua ngatur sendiri. Makan sendiri, tidur sendiri. Lha kok jadi kayak lagu dangdut. Wakakakakak….

3.        I am awesome because I can eat 3 pineapples. Non-stop. :-D

4.        I am awesome because I have greatest parents & brothers, who love me without conditions J

5.        I am awesome because I have awesome friends for heart. No need to mentioned, you just know it ;-)

6.        I am awesome because still try to calm down in a minute when my third Bold yg baru berumur 2 hari acting up AGAIN! Huaaaaa! it’s done! done! done!

7.        I am awesome because I can speak half bahasa and half English. O MY GOD, IT’S SO COOL AND AWESOME!  Hakakakakakak…

Aaaaaand,  7 Awesome Awards goes to:
1. Miund - Miss Mumble
2. Funey  - Mr 80s
3. Wita   -  Miss Communication *hakakakakakak*
4. Farika  - Virtual Mom
5. Shasya  -  Cooking Mamma
6. Morca  -  Mr Golden Voice
7. Ecky  -  Mrs Upritchard :-D.

 Hyuuk mareeeeeeee….

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May 16, 2009
Love Sunday afternoon than Saturday nite

Kenapa coba?

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Welcome Baaaaack :-D

Udah 2 bulan terakhir ini males banget nulis. Sebabnya? Ada deeeeeeeeh, hahahahaha…

Just to share, buat gw menulis adalah medium untuk aktualisasi. Aktualisasi untuk apa? Untuk diri sendiri. Hahaha, kedengerannya memang basi, tapi gw percaya bahwa aktualisasi diri itu PERLU, apapun bentuknya.

Minggu lalu, Sisil membagi cerita tentang Yoga Festival yang di ikuti di Bali beberapa minggu yang lalu. She tell me stories and I  got something very interesting: manusia need to be connected with spiritual. Medium untuk connect dengan spiritual tentunya bermacam bentuknya. Ada yang lewat agama yang diformalisasikan dalam bentuk sembahyang, ada  yang lewat aktivitas fisik dan hati, dan lain-lain dan lain-lain. Bisa juga  dengan cara berkespresi, salah satunya dengan menari, menyanyi, menulis, menggambar  dan lain-lain.

Pas kuliah dulu gw jarang sekali merasa frustasi . Dan tahun-tahun setelahnya berasa asyik-asyik aja walaupun yang namanya hidup dan pekerjaan pasti  ada aja yang bikin stress. Jawabannya adalah ketika kuliah selalu punya medium untuk berkespresi, dan tahun-tahun  sesudahnya  masih menyediakan waktu untuk menulis - pull out all the questions inside me.  Saat berkarya atau menulis, otak, hati dan tangan  dilatih untuk sinkron: otak berfikir- hati menyaring – tangan mengetik.

Walaupun kadang bete juga ya kalau tulisan kita diasumsikan yang enggak-enggak sama orang yg baca. Padahal belum tentu isi tulisan adalah curhat yang nulis. Seperti status YM dan Facebook seringkali diartikan sebagai medium curhat, marah-marah atau menyerang.  Hihihihi. Ya ga bisa disalahin juga secara di posting di internet, kalo ga mau dikomentarin mah ya ditulis aja di buku harian ;-p

Mari mulai menulis lagi, karena sinkronisasi otak-hati dan tangan gw mulai tidak seimbang. Hahahaha.

Wait! Wait! ada satu lagi moral yg gw ambil  terinspirasi dari cerita Sisil: Percaya wisdom yang bilang memberi lebih mulia dari menerima. Gw tambahin jadi memberi lebih mulia dan menyenangkan daripada menerima :-D

Welcome back, bloggers!

 

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Apr 17, 2009
Jogja-Solo Trip

9-12 April 2009.

Jogja-Solo trip ; Laweyan Solo, Candi Prambanan, Resto Gadjah Wong, Gudeg Yuk Djum, Resto Bale Raos, Mirota, Beringharjo, kampung-kampung tenun di Bantul, Ullen Sentanu, sisanya lupa, wekekekekekek....

The trip was for Ruri Big Smile

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